Saturday, March 20, 2010

Forever






“When the world walks out, you walk in” All of us in our lives come across people who have a huge impact on our lives, people who will be in our lives forever if not in person as faint memories tucked away safely somewhere deep inside our heads. “If you have one true friend you have way more than your share” I don’t think in number I have more friends than anyone in fact I think I might have less.
But among these few that I have they are so close to my heart there is nothing I wouldn’t do for them now these few are described by the word “Hommies”. A very special term indeed and for very special people. Now every one of these “Hommies” is a special person in their own ways. I don’t tell my Hommies very often about what their friendship means to me, most of the time I just take them for granted but I hope they know what they mean to me.
First one – He is probably the main one of them all now this guy is fourteen years of friendship in seventeen years of age. He is the one who is even responsible for the term we have all come to know as Hommies. Growing up would have been one boring journey without him by my side. GI.joe , Action man , Spiderman , Batman , Play station 1 , Play station 2 , Xbox 360 , Racing games , Smack down, Even the same type of music are only some of the many sweet memories. We even shared our friends anyone who knows me till today knows who I am talking about. We used to be really close but now he is miles away and differences between us somehow seem to be growing but I can’t even imagine how things would be if I ever lost him as a friend due to any circumstances. I know that things change, I know people change, but let’s hold on to this forever because I don’t know about you but your one of the only insane people in my life who makes me feel I am sane. I give a thought to all the really mean things we have done to each other so often not knowing what’s at risk and I think there is not a better time to tell you how I am sorry for those. We have had some crazy times together and nothing can change that fact and I tell you this it’s only the start........
“A friend can tell you things you don’t want to tell yourself”
Second one – 10th Grade when I was made to sit with the 9th graders it was the second day of school as she was not present on the first. There she was sitting alone was when I first saw her; It did not take us time to start talking. I remember it like it was yesterday. Talking to her or opening up was somehow never difficult, I remember calling her after school, in the evenings and nights. She was very fun to irritate but her anger was no joke and when she hits it hurts! In the process we shared more than our hard drives and we became Hommies. Today I am not that close to her I know very little of what goes on in her day to day life we don’t talk nearly as often as we used to. But I know that she still cares for me and I need you to know I do as well I would do anything for you.

“A simple friend thinks the friendship over when you have an argument. A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had a fight.”

Third one – This one I met on 28th April 2009. I think it took a day for me to take her as a really good friend and soon we were in love. She has changed my life and me in so many ways. Things were amazing in the start it was the best time of my life. We were so in love we didn’t seem to care about anyone or anything coming in the middle. We were invincible to say the least. When I met her she was hurt and scared it never bothered me I knew I would never hurt anyone and I had no intentions to. And I really do mean when I say her eyes were the best drug ever I used to and still do “trip” on them whenever I got a chance. We made it through a lot together but something went wrong somewhere with me and the person I was mainly my ego got the better of me. I really did say and do some very mean things and trust me that was not me I don’t know what made me that way and I repent it every day for something went wrong and I lost her....But things somehow worked out we decided to give it a second shot trying to make it work. Make things how they were in the past and somewhere we both know it’s very difficult for it to happen but yet I somehow always thought the way things worked out with her it was fate and meant to be and so I will put in everything I have to make it work and who knows...I have always believed if you want something with a clean heart and are willing to work hard for it nothing in this world can stop you from having it...

“The golden moments in the stream of life rush past us and we see nothing but sand; the angels come to visit us, and we only know them when they are gone.”

Fourth one - The most interesting one of them all. The one who the blog was named after, and the one who inspires me in many different ways. “A friend in need is a friend indeed” – One of the best quotes ever. So true isn’t it, friends I have got almost 400 friends on facebook. But none like you, I know you will stick around in my ups and my downs in life, I know that you understand me well, The time I have spent with you in the past three years have now become some of the sweetest memories of my life. Remember the 23rd ? Gandhi’s little test papers where that creepy guy never used to let me copy? Milesh’s where we used to talk shit on Ind vs Aus matches ? Firang? Do you remember all my wise man talks (During your clubbing extreme times? ) Coffee‘s before after during boards. ? . Shradha Bhatia you are one of the most important part of my life there are going to be tails written on us...I know one fact that your going to be there in my life forever the only one who is ever going to be more insecure about friends than I am :p
“ Life is such a fucking rollercoaster then it drops ! But what should I scream for? This is my theme park”
“No doubt deserved my enemies, but I don't believe I deserved my friends.”

3 comments:

  1. Baby very deep.
    i love it.
    you've really outdone yourself this time :)

    keep writing love.

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  2. I love it. I LOVE IT. I'm so proud of you Asad Thaver. You have so much to say, & you've finally actualized it by putting it up on the World Wide Web. Whether you continue this blog or not, I'm proud of you :) And yes, Imma be around for a long time yet. We still have places to go, things to do, people to see. Cheers <3

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  3. Haha thank you guys : )
    I am actually already searching for my next blog i need to get Inspired :P
    And Yes we have a lot lot lot to do :D
    Love you guyss !

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